Who are these Loony People that are on Spareroom/Rental Sites for Dating and 5 Reasons NOT to Do Online Dating
There's enough madness with rental places in Europe, maybe not as much as the US with New York and the amount of this is what is advertised but this is what you really get (i.e. x10 worse than advertised and overpriced - can’t wait for the regulations to kick in for the UK as hospitality can require years of training and should be undergone for many before they rent out). When I went for a viewing at a musician guy’s place previously (who reminded me of my old piano teacher who sang like she thought she could but just irritated everyone’s ears) and he mentioned he had a friend staying over but she was actually someone he had met on Spareroom also. He said she was a project manager for some filming place and she was out 5.30am until 11.30pm but now was actually someone he started having sex with! He studied at Cambridge but clearly not as intelligent as you’d think for someone from there – he rented a place that didn’t even have windows to open and felt like constantly being in a sauna. Not only that, but it’s also a fact that those having been to that university can automatically receive a Master’s without doing any course?! (Going on a tangent there but wtf, downgrades what those are worth including degrees these days). And when I said I didn’t want to be there, he kept calling me! Get the message and piss off
Online dating HAS TOO MANY:
Flakes
If you're starting a conversation with someone, continue it and don't just go off without saying a word. This is e-abandonment and it seems the culture on a lot of dating apps as many have said they have experienced this and also lowers your self-esteem or can make you feel depressed hence leading to bad mental health
Overly Sensitive and/or Super Insulting People
I am not talking about one weirdo I spoke to over the phone who sounded so offended when I thought he was Australian but he was from New Zealand. He was just butthurt and didn’t see the context of how many Kiwis have I met in my life? ZERO. And when I heard his voice for the first time, it actually sounded more South African than anything. Also nothing wrong with an Aussie accent.
If someone doesn't want a date with you, people can start throwing abuse and insults at you. It just reflects on you badly if you start saying shit about things such as petty comments about the other person’s looks who rejected you
Fake Profiles
People want to pretend they’re better than they are which never makes for a successful long-term relationship. One guy I spoke to said he was the owner of a restaurant but was only the steak chef when I searched the place online and his Instagram. These places are rife with fakes and one guy even stated he was a resort developer on his profile – even making a fake Instagram account for it! The website on the page wasn’t even real. There’s also one time when I was sent the profile of one of the customer relations and it appeared as the very first person on my app one day, haha I don’t want to see someone’s profile who isn’t even a potential match and also give you feedback to improve the app! That’s another worrisome fact that these apps are making very convincing fake profiles and you could be matching them and speaking to them
Broken, Damaged and Hurting People
I remember a guy called Matthew from Tinder stating that he was looking for a ‘genuine’ girl but low and behold, he was figured out not only a liar but clearly a sex pest. People say it is a small world and not only had I had a bad experience with this person but also another girl I spoke with who sent me the below image that she really had spoken to him and he told her he was working as an engineer to her but he was actually breeding cats and photography when I spoke with him but would soon be going into finance to work. And when you get into the territory of these types of people and they haven’t healed or got well (subscribe to see other articles with a theme coming up on mental wellbeing), they can go into all sorts of awful behaviours including stalking.
New Study Indicates Higher Rate of Divorce if Romantic Relationship Started through an App
Divorce rates are six times higher in the early years of marriage for couples who met online than in those who met in person (from various sources stating the same). Just goes to show, there are many people on there that are not able to form a functional and progressive romantic relationship, though this also happens many a time in reality also. And you’ll need guidance as well as support if you truly want to dig deep to become better and not from a psychologist or psychiatrist who charges you extortionate amounts and with the intention of never getting you better after all that time!
Keep an eye out as I will be doing talks ON MEN’S PROFILES AND HOW THEY ARE SO WRONG (though if you’re gay and get any useful stuff from them also, that’s great too!)
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